God has been teaching me again. Actually I believe that He teaches me all the time. Maybe the difference is that I've been learning again.
I quit Christianity. No, I've not converted to Buddhism, Hinduism, Atheism, or Islam. I've just realized that I'm a nothing. I quit, not because I don't believe it anymore, but because I realized that I already wasn't.
Have you ever noticed that if it were possible to be the kind of Christian that we keep trying to become, then we wouldn't have any need of Jesus? Go, read Matthew 5, 6 and 7. This is what a Christian should look like. You who call yourself a Christian, is that what you look like?
If it isn't then what are you going to do? Has God set us up to fail? No. Jesus did come. Matthew 5, 6 and 7 is definitely not a picture of me; but it is a picture of Jesus.
Are we still trying to annul our need of Him, by becoming perfect 'for Him' or 'with His help'? I don't deny that God helps us. But in any other context we think of help as something we only need when we get in really tight spots, every now and then, and often as our last resort. I personally need a lot more than just help.
God has taught me a game. I'll call it the "I'm not I AM" game. I think of something that I'm not and He replies with what He is. Like this:
Me: I'm not loving, I really don't love my family.
God: I AM Love. I AM the only one who can love your family.
Me: I'm not a good friend either. I keep letting people down.
God: I AM the perfect friend. I'll never let you or them down.
Me: God, what am I supposed to do, don't You expect anything of me?
God: I expect only what you are capable of. What can you do?
Me: I can't do anything.
God: Good, then I'll do everything.
Am I crazy? Probably. This is one of the most exciting things that has ever happened to me. I love this game. It may sound silly, but I promise if you try it you will find it very practical. Sometimes I play it with Him just for the sheer joy of hearing Who He is and everything I'm not. But other times I play it as a weapon.
Mom calls me to do something when I finally thought I was done.
Me (through gritted teeth): I'm not respectful, and I don't even want to be obedient.
God (chuckles): I AM, and I AM. I'll do it.
It is amazing, suddenly the fight is over and everything is off me.
I'm not, and I don't ever want to be again.